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| Root bound plant - photo credit Vegetarian Times |
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| Root ball loosened - photo credit Vegetarian Times |
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| Slicing lengthwise to loosen roots ~ photo credit Canadian Gardening |
Once a catch-all for our homeschool and everyday family life, now a spot for my meanderings about whatever comes to mind- and always books.
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| Root bound plant - photo credit Vegetarian Times |
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| Root ball loosened - photo credit Vegetarian Times |
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| Slicing lengthwise to loosen roots ~ photo credit Canadian Gardening |
We stood together, just the six of us. On a day when we buried one, we huddled... holding and upholding. When others said...we'll be there. I said... no. All I wanted, all I needed was my family. I gathered them around me... my parents, my man, and my kids together. It was enough.
Family... that group of people who are defined by blood lines, and maybe more. Sometimes those closest to our hearts do not share the same family tree. We cannot chose our relations but we can choose to redefine the term family to include those who are closest to us. Those we live life with... the ones to whom we cling when the storms of life roar and the winds threaten to overflow us.
I am blessed with an amazing family. As I grow older and slightly wiser, I have learned to count that amazing family as a gift. I now recognize it's rarity. I also know that I have friends who are as close to me as my sisters. I've learned to count them as family and as gifts. They are equal but different treasures to my heart.
Recently, I wrote a novel about family and friendship, life and loss... The Secret of Counting Gifts and an accompanying journal, The Secret of Counting Gifts Gratitude Journal. Both volumes have been released and are now available through Amazon.com
The Secret of Counting Gifts is the story of Kris McClintock and Liz Bower and their friendship that spans twenty-eight years. Through marriage, babies, and infidelity they stand by each other and hold one another up... until breast cancer delivers the final blow. As she sits by Liz, Kris recounts the trials and blessings that made them who they are. She tells their story and recalls the many "gifts" they have been blessed with throughout the years. She shares of how Liz taught her to notice the gifts in each day and to live with a grateful heart. It is through the telling of their story that the secret of counting gifts is discovered....
Throughout this month, I'm on a virtual book tour, meeting up with bloggers and talking about friends and family, life and loss. You can see the stops along the way at www.heidikreider.com. Come on over and say "Hey!" and register for my giveaway... autographed copies of The Secret of Counting Gifts and The Secret of Counting Gifts Gratitude Journal in a hand-made basket, made my lovely friend, Anne.
All those years ago, my family stood with me as we buried our stillborn son. Who do you have stand with you when you face loss? Do you have friends who are as close to you as family?
About the Author:
Heidi Kreider is a wife, mother, author, and friend. She blogs about life, grace, and gratitude at www.heidikreider.com
…over at LinderCroft’s today!
I’m a guest today at LinderCroft. Come over and see how I make tortillas like you’d buy at the store.
If you were looking for my Making a Home post this week, you’ll find it at LinderCroft’s. Come on over!
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Mid-season, Rutgers determinate tomato about 10 weeks old. A sample of the tomato size is in the top right corner. They get to 8 ounces, are globular, smooth, bright red fruits with thick walls, small seed cells, and are free from cracks Bountiful Gardens |
Thanks to Wm Rowe
Living further away from the hustle and bustle of city living isn’t necessarily a bad thing. There are times when I drive into the city and imagine what life would be like living in a swanky high-rise condo overlooking the city’s skyline. There would be access to amazing night life and wonderful restaurants without having to even get into the car. Big cities offer amazing cultural events like the ballet, the symphony, and a multitude of museums and exhibits. But then I am brought back to the fact that I have a family- and two dogs! Can you imagine navigating an elevator or a flight of stairs ten times a day to take your dog out to use the restroom? Where would my girls ride their bikes or even play in a fresh patch of grass? Country living does not have to mean exclusion from the “real world.” When I logged on to http://www.wildbluedeals.com/, I was happy to realize that I could still be connected to the bigger world. I could check out all the weekly offerings at local attractions and smaller venues, and if I wanted to brave the “Big City,” I could look online to see what new events or happenings were going on without sacrificing the clean air and spacious living. It’s truly the best of both worlds.